This is all I have for you today. Games are about fun, so have fun. I've spent the past two weeks stressing out about how to pick my L5R game back up again. Then stressing about how to modify things. Then stressing about how to get back to where I was. At the end of it a couple friends just told me straight: just have fun with it.
RPGs are about fun. Sometimes it's work. Sometimes it's stressful. But you should have fun playing. Don't forget that.