tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2624244242117701070.post5697078025072534484..comments2024-02-05T03:35:05.363-05:00Comments on Reality Refracted: When The Magic Is GoneA.L.http://www.blogger.com/profile/05306497273874881493noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2624244242117701070.post-75112826482642965622013-03-22T02:45:36.682-04:002013-03-22T02:45:36.682-04:00It's going to be end of mine day, except befor...It's going to be end of mine day, except before ending I am reading this wonderful article to increase my knowledge.<br /><br />My homepage - <a href="http://torontowinetasting.com/" rel="nofollow">discount coffee beans</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2624244242117701070.post-32210136378101812342011-04-26T11:44:01.751-04:002011-04-26T11:44:01.751-04:00C.D.,
Timid gamers is actually my experience as w...C.D.,<br /><br />Timid gamers is actually my experience as well, and is one of the reasons I wrote this post (and the one tomorrow). So often in games, people don't say anything because they don't want to hurt feelings. Sometimes they'll even flat out lie, saying they're having a great time at the table, only to complain about the lack of fun later.<br /><br />As a GM this always A.L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05306497273874881493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2624244242117701070.post-50139464826352750272011-04-26T11:40:51.720-04:002011-04-26T11:40:51.720-04:00I think being direct and assertive (respectfully) ...I think being direct and assertive (respectfully) is hard for some people (especially for gamers, but maybe that's just my experience). Hopefully these people you're playing with are your friends and you can feel comfortable talking to them. If you've gamed with them for awhile, you're not having fun and you're not even comfortable talking about, then it probably is time to C.D. Gallant-Kinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01080400727631587101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2624244242117701070.post-33582369173956821312011-04-26T10:17:59.054-04:002011-04-26T10:17:59.054-04:00Very good advice Emmet. Being direct is such a key...Very good advice Emmet. Being direct is such a key bit of human interaction, especially when it comes to wants and needs. Sure, we can sometimes infer it, but that also leaves the door open to miscommunication.<br /><br />Being subtle means things may not change, and I can't say how many times I've asked people "did you talk about it?" only for the answer to come down as "A.L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05306497273874881493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2624244242117701070.post-18210425682860441602011-04-26T10:10:16.551-04:002011-04-26T10:10:16.551-04:00I'd like to throw 2 cents in the pot.
It can ...I'd like to throw 2 cents in the pot.<br /><br />It can be really hard for everyone else to know why you're not having fun if you're not direct about what you want. After all, the chances are, they are having fun. They don't see a problem. Everything feels good and natural to them.<br /><br />Second penny. A lot of people give really weird signals when they game. They swear they&#Emmetthttp://www.theartifact.netnoreply@blogger.com